Sexy Labia: Love Your Sexy Labia

[Deleted User] · Post edited by LabiaLover at 2012-02-13 17:41:15

I am ready for some adoration ;)
This man loves me so good and touches me just right, but I want him to look at my pussy like he looks in my eyes - with longing, and aching for a taste of my sweetness. Ready for suggestions :)
A little background, he is a bit shy and usually follows my lead for really explicit talk/ action ;)

[Deleted User]

Wow, do I have a lot to learn! "Worship" is a bit stronger than what I meant, lol! Just looking for a lot of extra attention, minus the dominant/submissive angle.

tempest_driver

There are so many directions we could go with this that it would be easy to give bad advice trying to help. The first thing I will say is that if he's doing everything else right...How much do you really want to change, and how important is it to you?
Perhaps the one thing that you could do that would have the greatest impact on how he looks at you would be to pull this man out of his shell. Start by talking to him about your desires, that may be enough for him to start talking dirty to you, taking the lead in bed a little more etc. but be patient with him. If this is something new for him he may seem real a Ward at first, and this could get a little frustrating for you. guide him gently along, and soon he'LLC hopefully be approaching what you're looking for.
you can also try pointing out things in porn that you'd like him to do, and how you'd like him to treat you, that should give him a little basis for referrence.
And you should be clear. If this is something you want only when you want it, or if it's something you'd like to live 24/7 you should be clear. He may get a little incredulous, and ask why you want this, if it's really important to you tell him so and why you want or even need this.
I may have really gone off on a tangent with this, but I think the underlying message is truly there. You need to talk to the man. If you never communicate your needs to him, the only way they'll ever get fulfilled is by pure dumb luck.

LabiaLover · Post edited by LabiaLover at 2012-02-13 17:56:06

Happy,

I would really second what Tempest said. . .

Talk to him. . .let him know what you'd like him to do.

Really.. ..what you're describing sounds like you're trying
to entice his primal instinct, or really bring out what makes
a man lose it over a woman's pussy.

The best way to do this is to be sexually confident, but remain
submissive enough that he just wants to ravage you and your pussy.

It's a fine line, and one much more easily described than executed,
however, I'd say with sexual confidence comes things you may or may
not normally do now that would really "awaken" his primal urges to lick
your pussy and put his cock inside it the way he looks in your eyes.

Most of the women I've been with or have spoken to in my life about
this would usually describe this occurring after something they did that
caused the man (or me) to lose it and just think of nothing else but the
pussy in front of his face.

That said, I think your best bet would be to try some things you may not normally do now. . .do you spread your lips for him, spread your wetness your around it, and actually show him how badly *YOU* ache for him?? Maybe bite your bottom lip (always sexy when a woman does this). . .and tell him explicitly: "I want you to lick my pussy."

I think a lot can be gained in doing it that way and approaching it in that respect -- us men are almost purely visual creatures. . .

Take a look at these two threads for some ideas (these women, as I'm sure most members on this site would agree really drive the point home, and leave men really "aching to get a taste of their sweetness" as you put it):

https://www.sexylabia.net/discussion/80/dedicated-thread-for-diddler_darlington

https://www.sexylabia.net/discussion/67/dedicated-thread-for-abbie-jones

Either way, do come back and let us know how your efforts turn out! ;)

mrmarquis

Happy kitty,

Do you mean to say that your hubby doesn't follow your lead in this one particular area? I find it hard to believe that he wouldn't overcome his shyness with a little definite encouragement from you.

[Deleted User]

I think "definite encouragement" from me was lacking a bit, Mr.M! I must thank the three of you, Tempest Driver, Labia Lover and Mr. Marquis. Your ability to shift gears to address us ladies in just the way we need at the time is what keeps me around this site and its sister site.
Had a great talk with hubby last night! We are generally great communicators, so needing outside advice was a tough pill for me to swallow. Sooo glad I sought help here, though. Marriage can sometimes become full of habits - we are def ready to polish off the old ones - some need tweaks, some just need to happen more!! Funny after the long day, we never did realize those things we discussed last night. But this morning, oh my did he make my toes curl!! TTYL, gentlemen!!

mrmarquis

Congratulations Happy kitty,

I am truly pleased for you, and for your hubby. You know, it's so easy to fall into a rut, a routine, especially if you've been together for quite a while. You really do have to work at it a bit, in order to keep some freshness, some spontaneity, and your own personal desires in the forefront of your relationship. Now and then, it takes a discerning eye from a friend. What really did it, though, was you being open enough to look for guidance. I'm so happy for you. Again, congratulations!!! Nothing better than to hear that you can still get your toes curled!!!

LabiaLover · Post edited by LabiaLover at 2012-02-15 09:36:53

HappyKitty,

Yes, same here. . .I'm glad to hear you had a good time yesterday morning! :D

Sexual experiences should never feel like a rote routine. . .all it takes is
a little creativity, and like mrmarquis said sometimes just a 3rd party view
from the outside in, to help point you in the right direction. :)

tempest_driver

I'm so happy that this has worked out for you. Your mission now is to keep it working. Because as you've already seen, sex actually can get mundane unless you take the necessary steps to keep it fun. It's a good thing that this is fun work though.

As for the toe curling...I think we're going to need some details. Come on, give us a blow by blow.

[Deleted User]

Well, in spite of my presence here, I am a little shy ... I will say this, it was our first time since we became parents that he was inside me. It was like the first time again. We are crazy in love!! Being one with him and moving together was just so like, yeah THIS is us - in lock step with eachother. Feeling him cum in me again was positively life-affirming. That hot burst filling me up always makes me grip him so tightly and quiver. He slipped out of me and swirled his fingers in the pool of our juices. He is amazing with those fingers, rubbing my clit with just the right speed and pressure. He reaches down to where his cum is still dripping out of me. He "brings the wet up" and watches me grind my hips down and up again. He knows I'm getting close and takes a nipple between his teeth and teases me. I gently pinch and twist my other one - the closer I get, the harder I pinch. And then I flood his hand with my sweet sweet juice, and rest my head on his chest while I try to catch my breath...
That was how we started our Valentine's day ;)

mrmarquis

Sounds like Valentine's Day was pretty special to me!! Again, congratulations!!! I know that sometimes it's tough getting back into it after child birth. Now you know, he still loves you, he still loves your body, and he still loves to play with it. How can you ask for more?? As to your being shy, I am so pleased that you found the courage to write this letter, and inform the rest of us how special your day was. One thing at a time, after all. Soon, you'll find the courage to share your beauty with the rest of us.

tempest_driver

I want to echo mrmarquis. Thank you for sharing your story, it was very hot.

Eva

happykitty77 said:
Well, in spite of my presence here, I am a little shy ... I will say this, it was our first time since we became parents that he was inside me. It was like the first time again. We are crazy in love!! Being one with him and moving together was just so like, yeah THIS is us - in lock step with eachother. Feeling him cum in me again was positively life-affirming. That hot burst filling me up always makes me grip him so tightly and quiver. He slipped out of me and swirled his fingers in the pool of our juices. He is amazing with those fingers, rubbing my clit with just the right speed and pressure. He reaches down to where his cum is still dripping out of me. He "brings the wet up" and watches me grind my hips down and up again. He knows I'm getting close and takes a nipple between his teeth and teases me. I gently pinch and twist my other one - the closer I get, the harder I pinch. And then I flood his hand with my sweet sweet juice, and rest my head on his chest while I try to catch my breath...
That was how we started our Valentine's day ;)

I'm envious!! ;)

[Deleted User]

Glad you enjoyed my story, Eva. And I must confess, that was only part one of Valentine's day. We met back in bed twelve hours later to end the day as we had begun!!

LabiaLover

Hey everybody. . .

Is it just me. . .or is it hot in here?!?

I got a wet spot in my pants, and my screen
seems to have fogged up. . .

=P~

mrmarquis

Kitty, that lucky, lucky devil!! I'm so happy for you both!!!

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