Sexy Labia: Love Your Sexy Labia

LabiaLover · Post edited by LabiaLover at 2012-02-10 20:54:32

I hate to be a stick in the mud. . .

But today I came across this site (Plastic Surgeon) promoting
LabiaPlasty surgery. . .

http://labiaplasty.net/before_and_after_photos.html

What I find rather odd about the whole thing is that the pussies
they show in the "before" photos are the kind of pussies I'm typically
accustomed to seeing -- I mean majority of the women I've been involved
with have labia that resemble most of the before photos. . .

What really blew me away was one woman on there was 60!!

I mean okay women in their 20's and 30's are insecure and all and
think they look "different" because of what our retarded society pounds
into their heads about how labia should look (i.e. biggest offender being
the porn industry), but damn at 60 years old what could a woman possibly
have to gain by committing to a labiaplasty surgery?!?

60 years old, and I thought her before pussy shot was very nice. . .heck I'd
have licked her pussy and you mean to tell me she couldn't find a man who
would lick those lips for her, and make her understand that nothing is wrong
with her and that she's perfectly normal?!?

Huge disappointment. . .the labia after shots show these women with
practically no lips, and have them in these egregious poses too showing
off what used to be a pussy!

It's the male equivalent of having a guy cut off the head of his cock if you ask me. . .

himu · Post edited by himu at 2013-01-14 10:13:31

I hate this industry... :(

Eva

Okay when I saw the post-pictures my labia literally twitched. I have to admit SOME of the labias were well cut, but others were simply butchered!!

First of all they have the women's lips in these awkward mangled positions so obviously they're going to look out of place. Then some women still have labia showing after the surgery so technically they didn't solve the problem. And come on you're in your 60's and you get this done? Go retire and find a foreign labia lover who will take good care of your lips. You've lived with them for this long I'm sure you can go another decade.

Who the hell came up with the notion that ALL women are supposd to be tucked in, because I really want to sock them in the face. You look at sites like ratemynaughty.com and a large percentage of women have outie labias- and they rank fairly high.

As for the 20 year olds, the first asshole you find that makes a negative remark on your body is not some type of all-knowing guru. That's what dating is all about learning about yourself and preferences. You may just hack of a precious quality your future husband may go gaga for. I'm sick and tired of women wanting this surgery and that surgery because they feel incompetent. Work. With. What. You. Have. Write a bucket list, go on a vacation, ween off men, do something to boost your confidence.

I have small breast and you don't see me jumping on a plane to California and setting an immediate Breast Implant. I'm at peace with them. Hell, I like the fact that I can go braless, men actually pay attention to my words, I can sleep on my stomach, if I wear a low neck dress I'm not spilling out, but showing some mound. In time they'll get bigger with pregnancies so there goes the implants right there.

And if you're just one those women who always finds faults. Shut up! You're not the first woman to have large labia. Find the right underwear for everyday, lose some weight if youre chafing your lips with your legs, take off the underwear and let them free, and keep it moving. Gosh, some women act like its some type of abnormal growth. Did you ever stop to think how your paranoid and low self-esteem attitude is going to affect the general female population? This type of stuff really pisses me off.

If my gynocoligist ever mentioned this surgery to me, boy would they get a mouth full.

tempest_driver

I didn't see a single case there where I saw what I would categorize as improvement. Each photoset is a tragic loss, and set 3 just made me want to cry.

LabiaLover

Well. . .you know I completely agree!

And Eva. . .next time your labia twitches,
please try to catch it in a snapshot and e-mail
it to me. LOL!

You know I love every nuance that is "woman"! :D

Eva

LabiaLover said:
Well. . .you know I completely agree!

And Eva. . .next time your labia twitches,
please try to catch it in a snapshot and e-mail
it to me. LOL!

You know I love every nuance that is "woman"! :D

Oh LabiaLover, what are we going to do with you? :P

Besides, I'd need to video tape for you guys to see a twitch.

LabiaLover

Yeah, that was my point. LOL! :D

himu

OH! please please... "we want video", "we want video" .... =P~

mrmarquis

Brava Eva!!!! Brava!!!! My sentiments exactly!!!

ECC22

Some of these are quite well done (5 and 6) but I admit NONE of them look as good as natural small lips.

The two factors that put me off labiaplasty are the pain and the possibility of permanant scarring/ just looking weird down there.

IF I ever got it done I would ask for only the 'excess' to be removed. By that I mean the 1cm of skin that sticks out of the top on both lips. Then I would be left with a nice cm at the top. I cover it up sometimes just to see what it would look like. :-)

I actuallyb think the 'butterfly' when spread can look quite attrative (more so than no lips) My main problem with mine is the bit that sticks out. I am very slim and at times my entire labia hangs out as there is no fat to cover it. This is very uncomfortable and to me extremely unsightly. With legs spread I admit some medium sized wings can look 'better', when standing 'innies' do look HEAPS better. I can feel mine at ALL time (even when sitting) and find it VERY annoying.

[Deleted User]

Okay, I am a new mom and want to help you without being mother hen-ish, I hope I succeed! @Eva, do help me keep my mommyness in line, please :)
@ecc22, I had the same issue of discomfort. I found, by accident, that wearing a pantyliner helped me to feel less "out there" and more protected. May I suggest you try to focus on the issue of physical comfort and try to take a step back from thinking about sex and how a man will view you? All of the other esteem-related things will be a work in progress :)

Eva

@Kitty77 Don't worry I'll reign you in when necessary ;)

ECC22

Thanks. I have worn panty liners before but find them very uncomfortbale (like I'm wearing a nappy!)

If I'm 100% honest it is not painful, I just dislike feeling them out. I regularly stuff them back up and try to pull the outer lips down so it's covered. Sometimes they stick to my pants and I can feel them peeling off when I go to the bathroom (yuck.) They seem to change size on different days. Sometimes i think they seem ok, other times they feel ridiculous. Maybe stretching the outer lips would help me?

I have felt a million times worse about it since talking to male friends who said it was 'disgusting but luckily they'd never seen it in real life'. Before I knew I was different from normal women it didn't really bother me. I remember asking my friends at uni 'how big' it should be and feeling a bit bothered by it. But no man ever commented and neither did any nurses/doctors. (That said, no man ever stuck around for more than five minutes either...)

In the last few years my life has been pretty crap anyway. No job, no male interest etc... the last two guys I've been with haven't seemed keen on my labia. One said it was fine and differnet wasn't bad but... yet he never actually said he liked it.

Anyway, I do think these issues are partly linked to my depression over the job hunt (16 months...) and the hell that was my last job before that! (A colleague would comment that I wasn't attractive ebnough to represent the brand etc... ended in me leaving after bullying accusations.) My ex (who actually did like my bits) has recently go engaged too so that hasn't helped. I'm happy for him, of course, just a bit lonely. I've only met one man if the past two years I fancied (really liked) and after telling me how much he liked me, then ditched me after a few dates. (Luckily he didn't see my bits so can't attribute that to him!) Anyway, sorry to vent. I am hoping to go see a GP next week to offload stuff elsewhere....

And sorry if you think I'm being ridiculous. I know there are bigger problems in the world than 'roast beef'.

tempest_driver

Oh my god @ecc22, you may not have noticed much interest lately, but I guarantee you've got everyone's attention now. Your description of the things you don't like about your bits are some of my favorite things about well endowed women...especially the hangy-down parts. as far as them rubbing. I'd advise going without panties as much as possible. I believe @eva has taken up that challenge, and has been pleased with the results.

And as for "roast beef", I'm sorry for not addressing this with you earlier. I believe that most women associate good things with things that are visually appealing, while most men, whether they want to admit it, associate things that are good with food, ie. Mellons, tomato, lettuce, tacos, and yes, roast beef.
So when you, hear roast beef, or meat curtains, you may think of something that is visually unappealing, and I think of something that is delicious and fun to have in my mouth.
I guess that me calling your labia would be equivalent to you calling it butterfly.
Incidently, I've also been known to give women or ladyparts nicknames associated with other things I like. For instance, I once called a girlfriend a Ferrari. And I sometimes refer to large labia as "batwings". Also a good thing, because Batman is, afterall the greatest superhero of all time.
Yes it's stupid, but we're guys, don't you kind of expect us to do things you don't understand, or that you think is stupid, even if it is for the right reason by now?

LabiaLover

ECC22 said:
If I'm 100% honest it is not painful, I just dislike feeling them out. I regularly stuff them back up and try to pull the outer lips down so it's covered. Sometimes they stick to my pants and I can feel them peeling off when I go to the bathroom (yuck.) They seem to change size on different days. Sometimes i think they seem ok, other times they feel ridiculous. Maybe stretching the outer lips would help me?

Yuck?? Honestly, I'm shocked that's your response. Also, I don't see how stretching the outer lips would help you any since the inner ones seem to bother you so much -- it'd probably just exacerbate things at best.

LabiaLover

ECC22 said:
I have felt a million times worse about it since talking to male friends who said it was 'disgusting but luckily they'd never seen it in real life'. Before I knew I was different from normal women it didn't really bother me. I remember asking my friends at uni 'how big' it should be and feeling a bit bothered by it. But no man ever commented and neither did any nurses/doctors. (That said, no man ever stuck around for more than five minutes either...)

@EC22 -- I'm not the judgmental type as anyone here can tell you, but jeez. . .it sounds like you allow your male friends to significantly influence how you feel about yourself, and your own body. "Before I knew I was different from normal women" -- REALLY?!?! :-q

I mean how do you define the word "normal". I think you're the one who is normal, and the other women are abnormal -- and that's just playing Devil's Advocate, but seriously normal is you and everyone else. How did you come to believe that you weren't "normal"?? :-?

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